Back in 1998 I was leading a study abroad group to China, Nanjing University to be specific. We had been in the country for only two or three days. I was eating lunch in a small restaurant just off campus when I noticed three of my students enter. They didn’t see me, so I just observed what happened. They entered the restaurant and stood just inside the door. I knew what they were thinking—they were waiting for someone to greet them and show them to a table, just like in an American restaurant. They waited, and waited, and waited some more. I could see they were getting impatient and maybe a bit frustrated. I also observed the two waitresses working in the restaurant. They seemed equally perplexed. One said to the other, “What are they doing just standing there?” The other replied, “I don’t know, maybe waiting for someone.” What my students did not understand is that in small, informal restaurants like this you simply find an empty table without waiting for someone to show you. In other words, there is no host or hostess. They assumed that eating in China was the same as eating in the U.S. These students had pretty good Chinese having studied at the University for 4 to 5 semesters. I knew they had the linguistic capacity to order a meal and do whatever else they needed in a restaurant. But they still didn’t know the “rules” or “codes” involved in eating at a restaurant in China. It’s not as simple as it may seem, even if you know some Chinese.
This experience impressed upon me the importance of cultural knowledge. To get things done in China requires a whole set of knowledge that goes far beyond linguistics. In fact, one could argue pretty persuasively that cultural knowledge will get you farther in China than linguistic knowledge alone. This book is the result of several years of research on how to get things done in China; how to make sense of the Chinese world; how to decode China so it makes sense for a foreigner.
With that rather lengthy introduction, I am happy to announce that my book, Decoding China: A Handbook or Traveling, Studying, and Working in Today’s China is now available for pre-order. It is available through Amazon and Barnes and Noble and there are links on the right side of the main page of this blog under Books. It will be available in April.
Who is this book for?
I think this book would be a great benefit to students going to China to study, students doing internships in China, people going to China to live and work, independent travelers in China, and even armchair travelers. It contains all the information I wish I had when I first started traveling to China. I think it will even be valuable for those who have been living in China, even for several years. Basically, this is a book for those that want to go beyond the tourist or typical expat level of understanding. This is a book for those who want to live, work, or study independently among the Chinese. It is for those who want to blend in, not stand out.
Here are just a few topics covered in this book:
Which train should I take? Deciphering the train class numbering system.
Characteristics of hotels in China.
How to make sense of a Chinese menu.
How to buy and make sense of cell phone plans in China.
How to use the Chinese versions of Facebook and Twitter.
How to open a bank account in China.
How to barter like a native.
Self study learning strategies.
How to select a Chines study program.
Making sense of Chinese “face” relations.
The concept of guanxi explained.
What kinds of gifts should you give.
How to deal with culture shock.
Strategies for staying healthy in China.
Send me a message if you have any questions.
Looks great! I just ordered a copy. I can’t wait until April.
Can’t wait to read it!
This article was especially interesting because it discussed the difference in restaurant etiquette in China vs. America. My first couple of times in local Chinese restaurants, I also found myself waiting to be seated. My friends would then explain to me that I can sit anywhere. The book “Decoding China” seems to be very useful to not only the average tourist visiting China but also the foreigners who are making a life for themselves in a foreign country. It’s especially important to understand the culture of the country to be respectful and to know how to navigate your surroundings.
Now THIS is a book I will need prior to traveling to China! Based on this description, an in depth beginners guide/users manual to daily life, highlighting the transitional differences between western culture and Chinese. Not only did you cover all of the concerns I have such as transportation and culture shock, but also brought up things I hadn’t considered, such as cell phone companies, guanxi, and social media.
Will be ordering my copy once I get my check next week, thanks!